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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I like receiving and giving oral sex. Sometimes that is the only way I can reach an orgasm and not by being penetrated. but sometimes I feel nervous when a guy is going down on me. and sometimes I will just go down on him and won't let him go down on me or not mention him to do it. I just get really anxious because it takes me a while to orgasm and he feels good right away. I'm not sure why I feel this way. I want to be able to enjoy sex and receive oral sex as much as he enjoys getting it. He doesn't mind doing it, in fact, I think he gets off on going down on me, but I would say no. What could I do to not feel anxious about it? And what other factors could contribute to me not wanting him to do it sometimes??
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (19 May 2011):
 Many women are under the impression, and somewhat rightly, that their nether region is either a bit smelly or otherwise naughty. Well it is certainly naughty, or more correctly stated, "arousing," for a man to be licking a woman's genitals. Thing is, some of us love to do exactly that, mainly because it greatly pleases most women, and is also very arousing to the man - at least some of us. Just about every single time I have joyfully licked my woman's clit and plunged my tongue into her vagina, my erection gets harder and harder in anticipation of my own pleasures after providing her every orgasm possible.Thus, I have always considered providing oral pleasure to be a two-way street - where I please her and she pleasures me, usually also shared with abundant intercourse. It all adds up to a healthy, thorough and very satisfying sexual experience for both partners.While it is true that a woman's vagina can be a somewhat aromatic area with which to nuzzle, it is actually very much a pleasure to spend some time there - providing it is reasonably fresh and "balanced." Maintaining a healthy, "balanced" vaginal environment is the only concern a girl should have
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