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writes:I have been with my partner for a long time and I have never been keen on sex with him from day one. I thought I wasnt sex active but last year I had an offer from a guy at work who fancied me and I slept with him and it was amazing! I know it was pure sex for him but It made me feel close and nice to him. I have since made friends with another guy, although I havent slept with him, but I feel very warm and attracted to him and could easily sleep with him. Does this mean that I have never had the chemistry with my partner ? Does this happen that you can be with someone for a long time but have no chemistry? My partner gets very withdrawn from me if we dont have sex for a few weeks, but I really not bothered about it. Why dont I feel warm and loving toward him to want to sleep with him? I really am confused with this? Does it mean that I should really leave my partner in search of someone I do feel close to ?
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reader, DANCINGMAN +, writes (17 May 2008):
You need to get out and do more things with your husband, spice your life up a bit together and if you want passion in your life both!! go dancing, when your endorfins flow and you have been dancing all night and you get back with the person you love, trust me your sex life will be amazing !!!!
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