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writes: I am dating this guy I've been on and off with for about 5 years, and during one of the times that we broke up, I slept with his best friend a number of times. Now, I'm back with my ex and every time his best friend is around me, I get these urges to want to sleep with him again. I don't feel guilty that I never told me boyfriend....any advice?
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reader, MissMo +, writes (28 September 2005):
I'm questioning why you're still in this on and off relationship. Not only has it been unstable for five years, but you also have recurring fantasies about sleeping with your man's best friend. It seems like you're not happy, committed, or emotionally invested in your relationship. When we're in relationships that make us happy, we don't go looking for other people to sleep with. You really need to think about whether you want to be in your relationship anymore. Do you see yourself still being with this man in a year or two? It doesn't seem fair to you or your man to stay in something that isn't going anywhere.
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