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I slept naked beside him... now we've broken up and this worries me.

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Question - (24 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2009)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello,

1) First of all I'm confused totally. Dunno if I should be in this relationship... Sometimes I feel I can live without him... But otherwise it's like I really can't live without him. Can't wait to text him. Now, I really dunno what decision to be taken. But yes I do love this guy a lot. Dunno if he really loves me as much as I love him?

2) My relationship seems like a drama series... we've broken up thrice in the past. The first patch up happened 7 months after we broke up. HE called it an end. The second and the third time it was me who called it an end. However the third break-up was me who called it an end but it really doesn't seem like a break up. We message each other regularly. On the other hand there are problems of in security amongst us. Misunderstandings and fights are common.

3) The thing I'm worried is that there are things that have taken place between us, caressing, kissing etc. Once I slept naked with him however he was clothed. These are things are worrying me. Will I be able to move on? What am I supposed to do? I haven't lost my virginity but I'm really confused and not able to come to a decision. Please help.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009):

if he really wanted to be with you he would have slept naked with you that night. its much easier to move on and get over with it

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A male reader, guppypig United States +, writes (24 March 2009):

Perhaps it is different in your culture, but sleeping naked beside him doesn't mean you were intimate or in a relationship to me.

You should decide if this is the person who is compatible with you, whether or not you slept with him.

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