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36-40,
*pgeek
writes:I don't know what happened, but I know she's angry of what I did to her. I met this girl. The first day we discussed. I asked her many questions and she respond well. She wanted me to tell her my feelings towards her by asking me some questions like. Who is my girl friend?, have you ever had sex with someone?,is better you tell me your feelings, because something might take it away from me and i feel maybe is too early to tell her my feelings. I told her maybe next time, I will tell her.Although she told me that she was in a relationship with someone and she was ok with the person.I believe her and said no problem. Just today she came to my office. she sat down, we were discussing. I begin to chat with her by touching her hands. she ignored that. At last, I touch her belly and told her I want to see how her belly will looks like if she got pregnant. she got angry and stand up immediately and i told her to sit down. "She told me that she wants to go now that am insulting her. See what you just did now. You don't even say sorry". After she left, I think of it. I know is wrong to do that to a girl, but i don't think anything bad towards her. I just play with her by doing that, but she take it to another level. I sent her apology message "What I did was foolish and impulsive, if i could take it all back I'd do this so instant. I truly didn't mean to hurt you in any way and i promise I will not do anything that would lead to.......I'm sorry for hurting you, waiting ur reply"That's the message i sent to her. i was expecting her reply, but nothing show up. Please tell me what to do. I like her and i want to move on to the next level like falling in love with her or should forget her and take her as friends. Please any answer is acceptable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2011): Man just walk up to her and tell her how u feel and that u are sorry for hurting her, she wil have to lisen to u because there is nothing she can do
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (15 August 2011):
 This transgression will take a while if it is ever hoped to be resolved...it is ikely this will never be resolved so do not have high hopes that your beavior will be forgotten easily.
Certainly a text message is not going to smooth things over as using such a medium in this instance shows even less respect than your behavior. Believe it or not sticking a post it note on her car window would have been more personal than a text message.
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