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I seem to be void of feelings...am I doomed to never fall in love?

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Question - (26 July 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

im a 21 year old girl who cant stand the thought of commiting to anything, doesnt really want to be in love and pushes away the thought of if, and am basically like a guy in the way i think about sex. i dont like thinking about relationships and have never been in one. i change my mind about things so often i can never tell what im going to think next. what my question is, what do guys think of girls like that? and am i doomend to never fall in love? im so confused, i feel as though somethings wrong with me. my friends dont understand how i am "void of feelins" for things like this. i could use any advice on the matter if you could.

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A male reader, Lo$t +, writes (26 July 2006):

Lo$t agony auntDear reader,

I'm no professional at the love game myself, but we really need to establish the root of WHY? WHY do you void the feeling? Are you afraid? Have you been hurt? Speaking from a guys perspective, Some guys might actually love being around you for the simple reason..."Easy SEX" simple case of wam, bam, thank you mam.. You need to respect yourself, draw the line, and dont concentrate on falling in love, but rather, rather on having lots of fun.. Love will be automatic from that point.. Kindest regards Mo!

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A male reader, rasoncason +, writes (26 July 2006):

you'll fall in love you have to find the right person. there are guys out there who like girls who think about sex the same way they do. one thing to remember is not to rush into a relationship. wait until the right person comes along. don't make the same mistake i made and move halfway across the country to be with some without thinking first. i made that mistake and i kicking myself for it.

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