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anonymous
writes:i see the guy i like as being out of my league...im very innocent as in a virgin never done anymore than kiss...and his far beyond that, 4 years older than me (21 im nearly 18) and way too popular with the girlsi dont think he likes me because he could have any girl he wants but the other avo he kissed me on the cheek when he dropped me and my friend off to catch a train home and he always says stuff like "you have to come and catch up" etc ..yet i feel he probably does this with all his friends..are guys like this just in it for the attention from the girls?? thanks heaps x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): Hey!um....i realised that you're from australia! me too..which i can totally understand your question! so, i'm guessing this guy is (and i dont mean to be so forward) but i'm guessing that he's wog...italian? or anything like that?last year i was once seeing an intalian boy, he was absolutely HOT! gorgeous even and i could not believe that he wanted to meet up with me! I was younger and he was older about the same age as u r now and i too was a virgin. We were seeing eachother for about 3 months and i thought he was soo sweet, but i didnt realise that he was forcing me into sex. All he wanted was sex but he'd hint that out to me in very vague manners. And, I wanted a relationship, and if i were to have sex with him i wanted to be in a relationship! Because i live in perth, i was from the south, he was from the north, he dressed very metro and he had girls left, right and centre! but what i want you to understand is...if u want to meet up with him, make sure he doesnt just want sex! If u want a relationship then make that clear to him, but not by coming on too strong! If he automatically says, "nah i'm just happy being single" then you know he only wants one thing!that is the key with these guys because if he does want a relationship, then you know that you are not out of his league but rather kick up your heels! and brag to everyone that you've got this extrodinary guy!!!i wish all the best...good luck! and keep us posted! x
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reader, trizzac  +, writes (11 June 2007):
 well firstly de age thing does not matter dat much its only 2-3 yrs...
and de thing he can ave any girl he wants WAT IF YOUR DE ONLY GIRL HE WANTS did you think of it dat way maybe he's seen sence and likes you above all de girls..
and if he's as gud as it gets i tink he'll respect dat your a virgin nd will wait till tour ready nd so froth!!!
so i think you should go for him if you like him there's nothing to lose..some guys are in it for attention from de girls lets hope his not...
gud luk in wat eva you choose kk xxx
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reader, nologo  +, writes (11 June 2007):
 You say "he could have any girl he wants".
So does this mean you wanna be "any girl"?
There is a good name for the wannabes of "any type" - losers.
You can go the whole way to become one of them, and then you will find that you are still not satisfied with who you are.
Here is the question: should you sacrifice yourself for him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): Hi
He may be doing this just because he likes the attention, you didnt say how well you know him, but if he has said you should catch up sometime then why not do so. Get to know him a little bit better and see what happens. Many people these days kiss people on the cheek in greeting or in parting and it doesnt mean anything at all except that it is something they do. Did he also kiss your friend on the cheek?
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