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writes:So, I met this guy a few weeks ago and it started off as him approaching me at the gym and we had a conversation and led to us exchanging numbers. He goes to college about 2 hours away from where I live and is visiting for summer so of course I just had the intention of being friends only. We've been hanging out and hes very nice and says the sweetest things so I'm starting to like him. Heres the problem, I asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said that he did for a year and a half but they broke up (he doesn't remember how long ago) but he made it seem within the last month or two. Then I came across his facebook and he still has pictures of them kissing and that type of stuff but not as his profile picture or anything. So I know that guys usually don't pay attention to detail as much as girls and it might of been put past him to delete them but would a guy leave up pictures like that from a relationship thats really over? I don't want to say anything to him becaus eit'll seem I'm being nosey and plus i sent him a friend request a few days ago and he still hasn't accepted it. I'm really starting to like him but I know he doesn't see me like that because he told me he wasn't looking for a relationship which is fine with me I just don't want to be lied to. Do you think he's being completely honest with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the answers. It's just hard because I've lready started to like him and we've already hooked up..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): Men are sweet talkers.. what has he done to back up his words? Til he actually shows you, I wouldnt think the guy has any feelings for you so just treat him like a friend and dont think anything of his previous relationships. There's no need at all. And for the love of God, dont put out even if he doesnt want you. That'll just make things very unstable for you, emotional, and detrimental to your self esteem especially if he doesnt want a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): Sounds like he's lying, he's still with her, and he's trying to get some action on the side with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): It's very odd that he doesn't remember when he broke up with his girlfriend. Beyond that it's a bit soon to be suspicious. If you always assume it is friendship and nothing more you should be fine.
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