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writes: Dear CupidI am 16 and I have two questions.I went somewhere with my parents to visit their friends and saw my parents' friends' daughter, and since that day I have not been able to stop thinking about her. I mean the only thing that is running on my mind at the moment is her, but the problem I have is that I did not speak to her and she is two/three years older then me. Would it be it possible for that girl to like someone younger then them? And my final question is, is what I'm feeling love or just lust? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2006): Well...since you know nothing about her...I would have to say it's infatuation. Sorry. It can't be love, you know nothing about her, do you? Have you talked to her? I've had this happen to me, I really liked this guy I met once and couldn't stop thinking about him. Trust me, you'll get over her, it may seem like no one can understand you and you love her to pieces, but it's not love. Depends on what kind of girl she is, I personally do not go for younger men. it's like being in love with a movie star. Stick in there, if she can't stop thinking about you, maybe email her, or call her, or get in touch with her. Build a friendship, don't scare her with your intense feelings. Take it slow, my friend, take it slooow.
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reader, Jonny_05 +, writes (12 August 2006):
I think that it is possible for an older woman to have feelings for someone younger. Also i think that at the minute what you are feeling is just lust because i had the same feelings once and did'nt act on it and the feelings went. Dont worry about anything things will take their toll and sort themselves out.
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