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I saw my cousins kissing? should I tell?

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Question - (3 August 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I saw my cousins kissing! I always thought that they act slightly flirty toward one another. At our family reunion I saw them sneak off. Thinking they were going to get the large amount of food my grandmother instructed them to get from the garage refrigerator, I decided to go and help. I walked in on them kissing quite passionately. I stared at them for like a minute in shock and then ran off. I haven't said anything. They're second cousins, and around 17. The boy is my first cousin, the girl is my second. I don't know what to do! Our family isn't very religous, but I could see them being against them being together. Should I tell them what I know? Or should I just keep quiet?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2011):

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Thanks!! I'm not going to say anything to anyone. Even they don't know that I know.

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A female reader, VSAddict United States +, writes (4 August 2011):

VSAddict agony auntEven though you saw it, it's no one's business but theirs. They're old enough to know the situation, they do and they see nothing wrong. Even though this is something your family would be against, it's not for them to know unless your cousins want it to be known. If they decide to come out and admit their feelings to everyone, then good I guess. But they know what they're doing and whether it's right or wrong and the possible consequences of their actions. So I wouldn't interfere if I was you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2011):

Keep quiet about what you saw. As you grow in life....you will see and find out about many things that will be troubling to you. This is called life.

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