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writes:I met a guy online just about 6 weeks ago,we met and hit it off completely,he got very serious very quickly,talking about the future etc.We both decided we were gonna start seeing each other and have done,we both agreed we feel as if we have known each other forever.I had decided to take my profile of the dating website as I really liked him and subscription was ending,since we had met he hadn't been on at all and now all of a sudden,i have seen he is back online,but at the same time still being really affectionate and gushy with me.Please help I dont know what this means,or what I should do about it.Does anyone think I should finish it or am I being too full on and maybe he is just noseying out of curiosity.PLEASE HELP Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve +, writes (4 October 2008):
 Just because you seen him back on the site doesn't necessarily mean he's back on there looking for someone else. He's maybe just browsing until his subscription runs out too. If you took your profile OFF the dating site then how can you still see his??? YOU were obviously back on it too yet you're keen on him! It could be too that he was on it checking to see when you were last on.
If you are both keen on one another then talk to him and suggest that you both take your profiles off, put it too him and see what he says.
~Eve~
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008): I can understand that this is disturbing to you. I suggest you TALK to him in a very casual almost "matter of fact" basis regarding the site. Ask him if he feels the two of you are going to concentrate on getting to know each other better and stay of the site or if he thinks you should both still explore other opportunities.
You need to COMMUNICATE openly and honestly. This is very important if you have any hopes for this relationship to develop and become more serious and intimate.
Good luck.
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