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*rinityHunter
writes:I went to a New Year's party and was reintroduced to this guy *Justin, 15*. He went to my school for only a couple months in 4th grade, and now we're both in 9th, with us never speaking, then his mom died so he moved and I hadn't seen him since. Well, he happened to be at the party. We really hit it off and he started drinking. He was really tipsy and kept saying that he needed to talk to me. I went to talk to him and when I did, he told me to kiss him. I just laughed and said no. He said,"Well, what if I kissed you?" I told him not to and when he asked why, I said because I didn't know him(truth is is because I've never been kissed and don't want my first to be with a drunken guy) and he said that I could get to know him but I just laughed and walked away. He did the same exact thing multiple times throughout the night. Then, when he was sitting down, he told me to sit in his lap and I did. He said,"Yu know what I want for New Years?" I said what and then he whispered in my ear. "You." Then asked to put his number in my phone but I said no and he got up and stormed away. Then, before I had to leave, I went up to him. He told me that he was mad at me. I said,"Why? I didn't do anything to you" and he said exactlly. I told him to give me his phone so that I could give him my number but he told me that he wanted to put his number in MY phone. So I let him. I texted him today and he never responded but yet he had updated his Facebook status from his cell phone. I mean GOSH!!! I don't understand!!! Why would he get mad just because I wouldn't kiss him? Why did he have to put his number in MY phone, much less not reply? I'm so confused and kind of hurt... Thanks for taking the time to read this!!! And I hope eveyone had a great New Year and good luck!!!
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reader, BettyBird  +, writes (2 January 2012):
Hi.
It sounds like this guy is a bit of a bell.
Aside from employing some exceedingly cheesy drunken lines with you, he also did the incredible attempt at a guilt trip.
He has been rude by not texting back, but the most honest advise I can give you is to sod it. He has acted like a really childish idiot and not even tried to explain himself even though with your number he has the opportunity.
Don't let it get to you and I'm sorry this is such boring advice.
Smile :)
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (2 January 2012):
 This guy isn't worth your time. Don't text him again and stop all contact. The fact that he only was interested while drunk showed his real intentions. It's good that you didn't kiss him because he didn't deserve it and he should've had more respect for you. Forget this guy, he's not worth your time.
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