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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Some years ago I was best friends with this really nice guy. One day he kissed me and told me he wanted to be more than just best friends, but I told him that I liked him too much as a friend and didn't wanted to lose our friendship, he was obviously sad with my answer. He transferred to another school (not because of this) and we lost contact.I had forgotten about this until I saw on facebook that he's dating a girl now. I feel really weird, it's been so long, but I kinda want to talk to him again. I asked him if he wanted to go out with me, but he rejected saying he had something else to do.I miss him being my best friend, he's not like the guys I date. He's really nice and honest. I miss the person I was when we were best friends, but he seems really in love with this girl. I feel jealous that he maybe likes her more than he ever liked me, I miss being liked by someone. He is the only one that has ever made me feel like this and I think that maybe I liked him in the past too.What should I do? Should I tell him?
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reader, -SC-  +, writes (18 June 2012):
Hello,
I find this ..sad ? Maybe he rejected you not just because ''he's taken'' he might of wanted you to have that awkward feeling :\ Well tough you rejected him,he rejected you. Im shure you will find Mr.perfect somewhere in the world ;)
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (18 June 2012):
 You didn't like him, you just liked the fact that he liked you.
You don't like him not, you just miss being fawned over.
Let him be with a girl that actually likes him for him instead of what he can do for her.
Next time you meet a really nice guy, say yes instead of no.
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