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I regret the abortion but I'm expecting again and I'm scared, any thoughts?

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Question - (10 March 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *tar123 writes:

hi everyone hope everyone is ok.

Right ive been with my fella for 4 years now i have a lovely little girl with him, she is 3 years old. well i got pregnant a few months after my little girl was born and i was going through a hard time with her because she was my first.

so there was no way i could look after another that soon after plus my partnar lost his job and every thing was upside down. well to top it all, it was twins i was carrying so i was even more scared. so i had a good hard think about it and ended up having an abortion. well to this day i hate what i have done and miss my twins so much and wonder every day what they would look like and how they would be. its so upsetting anyway im pregnant again and im 12 weeks and 2 days and cant wait for my little baby bean to come i have my scan tomorrow and cant wait well im really scared it might be twins because my little girl was a twin but i lost it at 12 weeks and as you no my last ones was twins so thats 2 sets already well my dad has 2 sets of twins in his family and my mum has 3 sets in her family so already that 8 sets altogether.

my fella has them too but i know it does not come from the mans side well my belly is huge already i look about 4/5 months.

morning sickness has not been that bad i tend to have a small bite of a ginger biscute that helps a lot. so what do you think do you think i might be pregnant with twins again im just so scared but i know i will love them soooooooo much please answer

and im sorry for the long message but i dont have anyone who i can talk to thanks everyone many thanks love

xxx

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