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writes: I'm 14 years old and I'm pregnant by my ex boyfiend and he's made it clear he dont have any feelings for me, I'm really in love with him. I wanna get over him and I'm not quite sure how to get over him if he is gonna be in my life now that the baby is in the way. Do you have any suggestions on how i can get over him? please help me
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reader, its a baby girl +, writes (19 July 2010):
its a baby girl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all, Your Answers Inspired Me To Be Strong something i havent been for a while. This baby is coming and the only thing i can do is give her the best of everything.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 July 2010):
Concentrate on you and the baby, for now he is just not important.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): The most important thing is to take care of yourself and the baby. Eat properly, get exercise (talk to a Dr. to find out what is safe to do), and take care of your emotional health. Meditate, read self-help books, keep your stress levels low.Get help. You are young and your body is going through a lot of changes. Your hormone levels will go up and down, you may feel very emotional at times. Pregnancy, especially at your age, can be a difficult thing. You may benefit talking to a counselor to sort out your current issues or join a support group for other pregnant teens.Keep busy. Make sure you rest if and when you need to (don't overdo it, listen to your body) but keep your mind occupied with things other than your ex. Work on school courses, hang out with friends and family, read up on how to care for a baby, start a new hobby....just don't let yourself sit around and get depressed over a guy that isn't worth it.Your life is going to change drastically and it's going to be tough but a wonderful adventure. Take care of yourself, and things will fall into place.Good luck
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