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I recently found out she had a threesome last week with her best friend and a local DJ.

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Question - (26 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello Cupid,

There's this girl I really like. We have a strong internet friendship and have never met. The last few months we've started flirting a lot more, things have become a lot more serious and we talked about being together. She tells me she likes me, but I haven't told her back as I am unsure of how I feel since this is an online thing and I want to know her personality better. I also recently found out she had a threesome last week with her best friend and a local dj. She told me she didn't think I even cared about her, this whole thing infuriated me and I am not sure if I should continue with her.

What do you think?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

It is apparent that she is not the type of girl for you, for it sounds you want a one on one with strings attached; and she doesn't.

Time to move on.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (26 March 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntOdd thing to do after you just said to a 3rd person that you like him.

Proceed with caution, it seems this girl has some odd ideas of how courtships go (Hint: do not let your potential mate hear of you fucking two others, especially not at the same time)

I would say you just got a pretty good glimpse at her personality. The question to you is, what do you think of it.

I would steer well clear, but perhaps this is exactly the type of girl you are after. Doesn't seem to be, since you are posting here.

If you continue the relationship expect similar events in the future, although if you ever wanted to try a three-some for yourself, well she seems willing.

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A male reader, polarkite United States +, writes (26 March 2008):

polarkite agony auntWhat do you think? What are you infuriated by? The fact that you haven't told her how you feel, or the fact that she's promiscuous, or both?

Whichever way it is, from what you've said, she hasn't really wronged you in any way.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

I think she did nothing wrong. You haven't made it clear to her how you feel or tryed to meet up with her. If you guys are serious why haven't you talked on the phone! If you have talked on the phone and she did that then is kinda wrong. But if its just online. She did nothing wrong! You guys haven't made a move on each other for her to not have sex with guys or whatever.

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