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I really want to go stay with him but he is being different with me and not replying to my messages!

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Question - (5 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *rincessSmithee writes:

Why is he being off with me?

Basically theres a guy i met on holiday, we speak everyday, we like each other. He lives 2 hours away, im going uni next year in the city he lives in.

We've always spoke loads, saying how much we cant wait to see each other again etc etc.

He asked me to come and stay at his uni the weekend before christmas (no sex stuff or anything, he even said he just really would love to get to know me more) so i agreed, both dead excited

We was up all night chatting, then next day didnt speak that much .. fair enough probabaly busy.

next day .. the same

next day .. the same

next day ..the same

asked him about coming to stay saying i can deffo make it, he was like yeee sounds cool 99% you can come , dont worry.

And still hes just being dead untalkative, slow replies, just dont seem that fussed.

What did i do?!

i dont get it.

How should i go about this, i really want to go and stay but hes just being different.

I dont want to ask because il look proper clingy and hes not being horrible.

I hate how ive said something and hes just not replying

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (5 December 2009):

I'm really sorry, but the fact he isn't replying shows he's just not that interested. You've done enough chasing, now let hi him chase if he's interested.

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