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I really thought he liked me... as it turns out he was just comforting me!

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Question - (29 March 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is about a guy and i'd really appreciate your help.

Well i was at a party on saturday night and me and my best friend fell out and i ended up crying. After about half an hour i calmed down and things were sorted out so we went back to having fun with everyone.

There was this guy, no names sorry. Who kept putting his arm round me and hugging me and stuff and followed me around. Now both of us were sober, he was fully sober and i was slightly tipsy but still in my right mindset.

We ended up sitting on the steps alone together all night talking and stuff. He went to kiss me on three different occassions but people walked up the stairs it wasnt until we went to go to bed that it happened. There was about 20 people so we all just had blankets and crashed on the floor. And there was only one space on the floor and so me and him shared a blanket and we were just lying and he put his arm round me then tickled me obviously i laughed and done it back. Then it stopped he just looked at me then kissed me. He was the one that moved and leaned in not me. And we made out three or four times after that.

On sunday afternoon when i got home he had sent me a facebook message about it saying he was just "comforting" me. I'm very confused because he was flirting all night even his best friend said to me that he likes me and i dont know if he's just saying that he's comforting me because he doesnt want to tell me that its anything else. I'm very confused about it all. Can you give me any advice on what to do please?

It would be very appreciated.

Thanks,

Anon x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2010):

Well it's likely he was only interested in one thing. Sex. And when he didn't get it, maybe he decided he couldn't be bothered. Let's face it, if he fancied you, he'd actually make an effort. Don't bother with him again.

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