A
female
 ,
anonymous
writes:Hiya,I really love this guy, and he's told me that he really likes me, however he's got a girlfriend. He's said that he'd go out with me but he's recently slept with his girlfriend and doesn't want to break her heart as it was her first time. What do I do? I had a plan just to wait until they break up naturally but what do you think?
View related questions:
has a girlfriend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): im in a similar situation i REALLY love this guy so much but he also has a gf he never told me he loves me or anything but we did use to be very good friends in juniors but since moving to high schhol we dont see each other as much so our friendship has gone abit and this is the bit i HATE in year 5 and or 6 he ( without me knowing until a few months ago clearly fancied me. The signs were all there me looking back but i just didnt know it at the time i just thought he was being friendly so i had a chance and blew it and now he has a gf and i love him SO much aah.
A
female
reader, bonym +, writes (15 June 2006):
 You said this: But I KNOW that he's THE one. He's my special person. He's already said that he'd french kiss me but i've told him no because he's got a girlfriend. Should I or not?
And you also wrote this in the original question:He's said that he'd go out with me but he's recently slept with his girlfriend and doesn't want to break her heart as it was her first time.
CAN YOU NOT SEE THE PICTURE HERE?
This guy is about as messed up as you can get, what I mean is, he is messing with your head, telling you he would French Kiss you etc etc and all this attention has gone to your head.
How do you know he is the one? Tell me how?
He says he wants you, but he is with someone and doesnt want to break her heart. Thats rubbish, he shouldnt be encouraging you.
My dear, FORGET about him, and do it fast. xXx
...............................
A
female
reader, Wendyg +, writes (15 June 2006):
 He belongs to someone else. Leave him to it until he is free. You cannot possibly know he is the one as you are too young and havent spent enough time with him. He has already taken one girls virginty and probably doesnt have any intention of staying with her. If he does leave her, and then goes out with you, whats there to stop him doing the same thing to you, dating you for a bit gets bored cos someone else shows an interest... if this is the sort of person that he is then you shouldnt touch him with a barge pole its only going to end in tears.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): You sound very young, immature, and premature in your thoughts and emotions. You say you KNOW HE IS THE ONE, but how do you connect with him on a physical, intellectual, spiritual, and emotional level?
It's so easy to take advantage of girls when they're blindly charging forward and willing to do anything for a guy they barely know anything about - especially if the guy is young and has no definition in character. I'm generalizing here, but the majority has proven so.
(Note to myself: sometimes, I really really really really wonder how ppl can be compassionate about stuff like this)
However if you must put yourself through this, I suggest taking up drama class. Excellent preparation for this type of shit.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut I KNOW that he's THE one. He's my special person. He's already said that he'd french kiss me but i've told him no because he's got a girlfriend. Should I or not?
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): Forget about him and go find someone who's free and single!Who know's what his agenda is? He may have no intention of giving up his girlfriend. Save yourself the emotional hassle.
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): find yerself someone else. he is just horrible
...............................
A
female
reader, ×KiTTy× +, writes (15 June 2006):
Hi , since his current GF wanted 2 sleep wt him that doesnt make her his responsability.If he's gonna break up with her he doesnt care about her feelings he's gonna do it anyway.Holding on to their relationship only gives her false hope.what about ur feelings?I say u shud move in NOW! GO GET HIM TIGER!
...............................
|
