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writes: My fiance keeps wanting me to talk dirty to him in bed. He even made flashcards with dirty words on them and showed them to his friends! He also wants me to wear pig tails and a cheerleading outfit. Call me crazy, but it seems like all he cares about is sex. Maybe it's hard for me because even though I do have sex with him, in the back of my mind I feel like it is wrong because I'm a Christian. I've gone back and forth on having sex with him, and decided to just do it so he wouldn't be mad or think I don't love him. Are all guys like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe's 34, I'm 24.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): No, they're not.
You don't say how old he is, but if over 30 I'd say he has paedophile tendencies!
It's a bit like asking you if all girls are like you - a Christian having sex not because you really want to, but because you want to appease your man so that he doesn't get annoyed with you or to prove your love for him.
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reader, Dr D  +, writes (1 October 2007):
Not all guys are obssessed with sex and your fiance might not be obssessed with sex because a large number of men now a days focus too much on pleasing themselves rather than their partner but it sounds to me like your partner wants to liven up your sex life with a little adventure, theres nothing wrong with this but if your uncomfortable with it say so, if he loves you which he clearly does because your getting married he will listen. tell him what you like and suggest things he could do for you and im sure he'll enjoy it just as much as you
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