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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was with my ex for 9 months and we were in love. then we had 1 argument and he called it a day, we hadn't spoken in 8 months and i started talking 2 him on internet. i asked him if he misses me and thinks about me and he said honestly yes, he misses the banter and everything else, and asked me what that guy i was with after him like, he told me he still kept everything i bought him and a photo of us together. I told him i still love him and want him back. he didnt say anything when i said that but he wanted 2 meet up end of the week, and he started 2 text me again, but only if i text him 1st, or if we arranged 2 meet, i met him on a friday and we got on great, he told me he changed and that he changing his style, and asked me 2 choose the clothes. everyfin seemed like nothing had happened, exept no hug, or kisses, or holding hands. He noticed i lost weight and called me attractive. after i got home he text and said will have 2 think of something different soon and do you think i might have a chance of getting back with him? please help as im confused and still love him loads. he text me when i text him, but 2day he said he dont wanna sound rude but he aint got time to text all day and that he wants me as a friend and there is no relationship. would he say that if i kept telling him i love him and want him back?What does it mean if he says he misses my company? and if i slept with him and he kept kissing me and after he kept staring at me? he never used to kiss me when i was with him during sex but he did 2day loads of times.I have told him how i feel and he said 2 me when i told him he will prob get attached 2 me again with sex. "dont you wanna find out whats gunna happen???i text him when i got home and sed is there a chance of us gettin back in future and he said no, its just fun for now. i asked what he meant and he said he wants to see how it goes for a bit as in being friends and see if he changes his feelings 4 me. i said i dont wanna get hurt or messed around and he replied saying that he wont mess me around at all. if he feels its going stay friends then that will be that. and he wont put me through **** again. i need advice badly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010): Definately move on! This guy just wants to sleep with you when convenient for him and then just "friends" when he's not in the mood to "text all day." Is being his "friend" worth getting your heart broken? He already told u what he wants...listen to him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010): You can go out with him, but refrain from having sex with him. You don't want to get attached to him again and have your heart broken. Believe me I know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): dont let urself be pulled into this trap. He either wants to just be friends...or he is lookin to get some, bcuz he knows u already will give it to him. he knows that ur the gurl he can go to when he wants sum play, cuz "u love him"
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