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female
age
30-35,
*carlettepenelope
writes:Dear Cupid,There's this guy that I've always thought to be pretty cute at my campus starbucks.Of course there's no sure way to know if he likes me (i mean he probably sees lots of attractive women every day and probably smiles at all of them and remembers how they like their drinks and jokes with some)I really want to get to know him though. I saw him with his head down on a table during his break and he just looked really sad and down about something. Since then he hasn't smiled or laughed whenever I've seen him. He looks really down and I want to get to know him and maybe cheer him up. I know he's still a stranger and I shouldn't be so concerned but I just can't help it, I really wish I could get to know him but I stutter and always lose my train of thought whenever he takes my order and he usually has to ask a couple of times.. :/ IHow can I strike a conversation with him with so many people in line behind me or get to know him and talk to him ? Reply to this Question
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (18 January 2013):
Maybe you could pass him a piece of paper with your name and number on it with a quick word about going out for coffee somewhere else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2013): Hey next time you see him say 'hey I was wondering if you want to grab a bite after ur shift'..be bold, there's no harm he would be instead impressed, its no time for us girls to wait around anymore, make ur move!Think of it as a friendly date! if u can't ask him straight up, slip him a note with your number.. Or u could just say 'hey I've been noticing you've been down lately and I know its not my position to ask but if you want to talk, I'll be here'..And smile when you see him (flirty way).
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