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*shlee-x
writes:Im 17 years old and have known this lad for 6 years - since i first started high school. After three years of talking to each other, we started getting really close. We had this 'plan' that when it was my 17th birthday, he was going to ask me out. I was really excited about it because i really liked him. Then i started to feel really weird about it when it was like a week until my birthday, and i told him not to ask me out anymore. Things was really awkward but he still baught me a present and i wear it everyday. I was determined not to let this come between our friendship. But now, whenever we are alone at one of our houses or at a party, we end always snogging each other. I know i really do like him now, but i think that me telling him not to ask me out that time has made him think that he shouldnt ask me out or see me in the girlfriend way anymore. Im really annoyed with myself, and dont know what to do because everytime i try to move on, i just keep thinking about him. We are still really close now and we tell each other everything, but i hide how i feel about him. Im not sure what to do. Please help!?
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reader, Ashlee-x +, writes (16 July 2008):
Ashlee-x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Nat for ur advice.
I deffinately need to pluck up the courage...its just hard i guess.
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reader, Ashlee-x +, writes (16 July 2008):
Ashlee-x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Nat for ur advice.
I deffinately need to pluck up the courage...its just hard i guess.
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reader, nat :) +, writes (16 July 2008):
you hiding how you feel about him and how you regret going out with him isn't going to get you anywhere! You deffinatly need to tell him how you feel & how much you regret not going out with him. Maybe if you don't feel up to saying it straight out, you could drop it into conversation & tell him you wouldn't have turned him down if it was now. Or you could even ask him who he likes, and then he will surely ask you who you like back, then is your oppertunity to say him & how much you would like to start dating! Good luck and hope you can pluck up the courage to tell him how you feel! :)
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