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writes:(: So.. I Have This Boyfriend and + He's Really Perfect. Our relationship is going really good. Very deep and Smooth and We are sure we love each other. He's not like other guys and i definetley can tell. AS far as im concerned he would meet all of my parents standards.But, its really hard for me to see him sometimes. He's a grade above me so he goes to a different school. The only way i see him is if my friend whose like my sister goes to the movies. Since, she's dating his older brother. My older cousin whose currently engaged and in her mid-twenties knows of my boyfriend too.Me and my boyfriend have talked and i really think its time I confront my dad about it. Since i really want him to meet my boyfriend. Im Thirteen In The Eight Grade by the way and he is Fourteen In the Ninth. Yes, I realize you may think that we may be young but i'm pretty set on sure that this is wat i want to do.I know telling your father about your boyfriend especially at my age might not seem like something you would want to do. But my boyfriends really open to doing it and i think it would make seeing him a lot easier. Can someone please help me figure out how I go about doing this? I have no idea what steps to take to bring up my boyfriend and how to present him to my dad on a very good behalf of mine. Your Help Is Greatly Appreciated To All Who Take The Time To Help Me Out(: Thanks XoXOXoX MuchLove.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (17 September 2008):
Why does your friend have to go to the cinema for you to see him? Is he not allowed out of the house to meet his friends by himself?
As for your dad, you just have to say that you've met this boy and you really like him. Your dad will want to meet him so just ask if you can have your boyfriend round to dinner one night.
Tell your boyfriend to be VERY respectful and call your dad MR, until invited to use first names and get him to offer to help your mum with the washing up. That always looks good. Your dad will probably be a bit strange around him - but dads always are. They want to scare boyfriends a bit so they know not to try and break any rules.
Good Luck!! xx
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