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writes: Hey, so, I've recently started getting to be really good friends with my work colleagues. We went out one night and both me and another girl got with the same guy. He and she started dating about a week later and are still together. Thing is, whenever we all go out, I end up getting with him. He kissed me almost right in front of her! Lately I've been out with just him and last night we slept together. It was great cos I really like him but I feel terrible...I don't think I can resist. He's always been a player and his girl knew that but I don't wanna hurt her. Also his friend likes me and got a bit upset when he saw us together. I know i should stop but I like him. Do these things ever work out alright in the end?
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reader, camille  +, writes (28 June 2006):
 They rarely work out ok, when it comes to lust, the mind goes out of the window. You have already hurt this girl you say you like (you can't like her that much). I'm sorry but this all sounds quite immature to be honest, you both got with the same guy, he kissed you almost in front of her, his friend likes me and got upset, he's a player and she knew that (don't try and blame her for what you're doing)..... Come on, you're loving it! He chose her, not you but he's getting off on the fact that he can still have you and you want him almost as much as you are! You say you know you should stop but you like him? Well, shame you don't like yourself and decided that you either have a relationship with him and there's no 3rd (4th) party, or move on. You will end up getting hurt and hurting others if you let this continue, not to mention the message you're sending out about yourself. There's no respect between ANY of the 4 of you.
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