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writes: When my friend walked in the door, i had us go around the other way to the computer so we wouldn't walk in front of my step dad. I keep replaying the whole thing in my head and wondering if i did it because he will think she is fat or i was embarassed by her and then when we walked to my room, i wondered what he'd think. No matter what someone looks like. if they are purple,pink, blue, black, white, too short or too tall, 50 lbs. or 500 lbs. i will still care about them and be their friend but it bugs me about what i just said. I keep obsessing i actually went through another part of the house so he wouldn't see us and wondered what he'd think when he saw her or if maybe i felt embarassed. Although, i am a good friend besides this. I feel like a horrible friend because i obsess over "what if she knew i did that" ..i feel selfish like i don't deserve to be her friend. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 What you are feeling is perfectly normal. You are generally a good friend and dont let appearances stop you from liking someone for who they really are. This is a very good quality. What you did was totally out of character for you and now you are feeling guilty for acting this way. Put it out of your head and enjoy your friendship. You never know your friend may think things about you from time to time. We all do it but you didnt hurt her feelings and that is the main thing.
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