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writes:I met a guy last week and invited him to a music jam night. He came along, and that was great, but by the time he arrived I was already talking to s group of guys and he then got cornered by a woman, who then asked 'is that your girlfriend? ' and he said no, then left. So anyway I bumped into him last night at another music event and he looked so happy to see me. He waved me over, invited me to sit next to him, organised a slot for me to play, and we had really good chats. When he left he gave me a kiss on the cheek, and I felt he really enjoyed spending time with me.I really like him. What is the best thing to do now? Is it best to just be casual and get to know him slowly, and later on see if anything develops? Reply to this Question
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reader, Patellen  +, writes (11 December 2013):
I am quite a bit older than you are, but courtesies are the same. When your guest arrived, why did you not excuse yourself from the group and make him feel invited? He was probably embarrassed that he had arrived and you were busy. He has given you a second chance without you even realizing it. If you like this young man, invite him again and THIS time, make him feel as if he means something to you! Then, see where everything goes.......
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reader, oldbag +, writes (10 December 2013):
 He's interested,,,did he take your number - how did he leave it - see you soon or when can I see you?
He knows you have male friends and admirers so your going to have to show him your interested in HIM so he has the confidence to proceed.,,
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