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writes:I really like this guy. He is so sweet and cute and is always flirting with me. He always compliments me (like with my shirt being low cut and my boobs) And he tells me things like - " you know that the lower a girl's shirt is the more attracted a guy is to her?" and we were talking about our last relationships. He said that his gf didnt really care about him and this whole thing that happened. He also said that he really cares about his gfs and im the only one that he knows that would care for my bf as much as he would care for his gf. We have been writing notes back and forth and i told him a list of things that i wanna do ( like i guess before i die or like whenever) and he said that he could do most of the things with me. So, does he like me? Idk wat to do. Do i make the first move and tell him that i like him? there are 2 problems though. 1- hes a grade younger than me. so the diner dance and the dc trip he wont be there for 2- he kinda ignored me yesterday. something seemed wrong with him. i gave him my # and he didnt call so idk. HELP! I REALLY like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): Sooooo, he compliments/encourages you for dressing like a slut. That is what I got out of this. I would suggest you look for someone who sees more in you than a pair of tits, but that's just me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): Ok, so you are a young girl under the age of 15, and you are wearing low cut shirts to school with your boobs hanging out, and this boy who you liked brought attention to it, and commented that did you know the lower a girl's shirt is the more attracted a guy is to her....he did not say that HE was more attracted, but that ANY GUT could be.
Without being overly rude, he was trying to make you feel self concious about your boob shirt, and that he thought you were wearing it to get male attention, not HIS attention....I think he is telling you that you look easy, like you don't care what boy you attract as long as you get attention from guys baring your boobs....
The way a girl dresses says a lot about her....I know it is a probably considered a badge of honor in your circle to be a girl with some boobs to show off so you can appear sexy, but to most decent guys it looks pretty easy, you see guys don't want a girl who shows it off, they want to know those parts of you are private and a priviledge to get to see, and that you don't show it off to just any one, but maybe only to him in private.
I think you might want to cover up a bit and dress more appropriately at school, girls look trampy showing too much cleavage and bare skin, sorry, if that isn't the advice you expected, but that is what stands out here to me.
I think you already made the first move, try toning it down (your manner of dress) and continue being a friend to him and see if he doesn't come around....take care and good luck.
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reader, Jordman  +, writes (5 April 2008):
Hi, your in a tight situation so you should take things a little slower and give him some time cos everyone needs some time to think, so if you do get to talk to him, ask him what happened and why did he ignore you. Hope this helps
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