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She told a white lie, could she tell bigger lies and what should I do?

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Question - (5 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, *f83613 writes:

Hi All,

Ok, I have always had this belief that if someone can lie to you about a small thing, they can lie to you about anything.

Recently my Girlfriend handed me a cute little blanket for my four year old son that she said she made for him. It did not look handmade, and i figured "What the heck, thought that counts" But she keeps on bringing it up how "she took so much time and effort to hand make it etc" I recently was browsing through Ebay and i know her Ebay ID was I was able to check her feedback scores...well long story short..she bought it on Ebay. Now my question is: Should I leave well enough alone...or confront her on it? If the answer is confront her..how do i phrase it?

Help please...thanks!

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A male reader, nf83613 United States +, writes (6 April 2008):

nf83613 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ok thanks all.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008):

I think alls she is trying to do is prove that she is compassionate....I think leave it alone....or if you want to confront her..say this, " I know you bought the blanket on ebay, however, i know that you only wanted to be a help. I love you for you, not for the things you do." something along those lines

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