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writes:okay, so i met this guy at my school, who im gonna call "travis" (not his real name). we have been talking for a few months now about dating, but when we discussed sexual circumstances, it was a little awkward. he is three years older than i am, and a lot more experienced. im a virgin, him, not a virgin. when i told him i wasnt going to sleep him with him, he backed off for a while, but then picked right back up where we left off a few days later. he said he respected my decision, but im not sure if he really does. travis is kind of known to be one who has slept with a lot of girls, and knowing this makes me think he wont be able to handle a relationship without sex. but i really like him a lot. what do you think?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou all for your advice!
im going to stay with him and see how it works out.
but for the people who told me not to let him pressure
me into doing something im not ready, dont worry.
im not the kind of girl to give into that anyways. =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008):
If you're not ready to do something with a boy your own age, then you're not ready to do it with an older boy.
This is what it really means to be mature enough to date someone older - not letting the age difference give him more power than you'd give anyone your own age.
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reader, theOC +, writes (26 June 2008):
This guy is a player. If you're not going to sleep with him, he's not going to hang out with you. It seems to me that his libido is extremely high and is not willing to wait for someone like you. I think you should kick this guy to the curb and move on.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (26 June 2008):
 If you really like him and he says he's willing to respect your decision, then give him the benefit of the doubt for the time being. Just be wary.
The /minute/ he tries anything without your permission, lose him. Don't ever let him persuade you to do something you aren't comefortable with, no matter how much you like him.
If he can't handle a relationship without sex then he's not the sort of lad you want to date anyway.
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