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writes:Met this guy 2 weeks ago and got on really well... we arranged to meet again after he returned from a week away on business, but he texted me and said work was manic, and really he could only give me good sex at the moment. B/c I really liked him I said that was a start and we met and had incredible sex, wow. He was very affectionate after which surprised me, and was reluctant to leave.I sent him a text the next day saying he was wonderful and now 2 days on not heard a thing. I know he's in Scotland on business but feel very let down to hear nothing.I don't know what to do now... I really like him but I do want more. What happens next?Also, can something that starts with just sex, move on to a relationship? Btw, he is a Scorpio and I am Pisces, so we are very compatible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): he might be busy or didn't want that much sex
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (28 May 2009):
Try contacting him once more. If theres no reply then give up. Chasing someone who is not into you is fruitless.
PS If he really wanted a relationship, then he would have found the time, or at the very least, he would let you know he was interested and kept in contact so he doesnt lose you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): My take is that he already told you he was busy and only available for sex (he has his out and reason for already built in for not contacting you) and guys are mostly face value about that kind of stuff. By agreeing to this, it's not really fair of you to expect him to call and act like he's your boyfriend. Who knows, it could lead to something but most likely, he meant what he said. You'll know more when he comes back, if he's just calling to meet for sex then you can assume that's all it is. If he straightens up and starts wanting to take you out and get to know you, then you have a shot at more. Try not to text or call when he's busy either, let him come after you.
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reader, PennyForYourThoughts +, writes (28 May 2009):
Well, there's a small chance that he just wanted sex and the affection and the fact he didnt want to leave could be part of the 'great sex package'. On the more opptimistic side he could want you alot, he might even want a relationship. It could be as you said, just because hes on buisness. Im afraid only time can tell on this one but I hope everything turns out for the best :)
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