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writes:I think i have a bit of a complicated question/story. But here it goes anyways. For the past for years i have had a crush on one of my best guy friends. We are both 18 now and will be going to different schools soon. Dispite our closeness in the past ever since sophmore year we became more distant. it is my fault really. The guy had been helping me with some emotional proublems and he had been so suportive yp till then. Around that time he developed a crush on 2 other girls. I got upset snd distanced my self from the situation so i would not get hurt. I know now neither wants to date him. then tonight at a show with local bands he ignorded me almost compleatly...he ALWAYS does in this kind of enviorment. i ran into him at a fair in early june, we talked for a long while. Apperently he is now seeing a counsler.i am now so frustrated with the entire situation. We have been texting....a bit (Hardly any but we have been trying to make plans to hang out)im going crazy...i think im gonna text him on friday to see if he wants to hang out. I may tell him everything then. As crazy as i am a part of me is just whatever i just wanna get rejected already and be done with it.over the years their have been times when it seemed like he might be intrested but other times he just ignores me compleatly. Well, he is leagly blind after all and cant see. what do you guys think and sorry it this is too long.I should have vented elsewhere first.
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reader, Haruka62442 +, writes (1 August 2008):
Haruka62442 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo my little sisters frind was hangin out with this guy about a month or so ago. I guess they were talking abt all the girls that he liked/dated. my name came up...not in a good way though. I guess he told her that he could tell i was always upset that he wasnt interested. i feel so pethitic now. how could i have been soooooooooo stupid? oh well i guess i can finnaly get over him now.
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reader, Haruka62442 +, writes (29 July 2008):
Haruka62442 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont wanna seem i like im pushing it or anything. I did text him that day....he never even responded. I feel so upset right now. I am so frustrated. Several years ago i would just walk over to his (and other friends houses to see if they could hang out). Im thinking about just walking over thei and asking him if he wants to go on a walk with me or something. I almost wish i didnt feel so strongly for him anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): Wow I actually have the same situation, but for a girl. If anyone answers this question it will surely solve mine.
anyway this is my answer i haven't done it lol so if it works for you it would work for me.
try to be more close to him like text messaging him every day?
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