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writes:I like this guy and I sent him a note asking if he liked me....but he cheked no.....and i still really like him and so does my friend but he said he doesnt like her either......and I still realllly reaaaaaly like him....should i just go up to him and kiss him? will he like me if i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (5 November 2007):
 You need to go get yourself some self esteem. Skinny is only a body type, and one of many. Not everyone is attracted to skinny girls. Keep your head up, your young, and will be changing over the next decade.
Take care
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reader, zina +, writes (4 November 2007):
zina is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you all for your responses and help but i have moved on for him.....turns out he likes one of my friends so i dont wanna be a bitch and steal her man...lol
anyways u guys r so nice and thank you for being so honest from zina
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reader, kta16 +, writes (4 November 2007):
No! If he says he doesn't like you then give him his space. Try becoming good friends with him, and maybe something will happen from there :)
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reader, zina +, writes (26 October 2007):
zina is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the responses....i guess i wont try to kiss him i mean if he likes another girl i dont wanna ruin his chances or make a fool of myself .....hed probably shove me off and not like me ...mainly because im not pretty or skinny......anyway thanks for the responses
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Okay, he doesn't like you, but you want to kiss him because it gives you the feeling that you are close to him, and it gives you emotional pleasure combined with touch, that something that you want, that has rejected you, you can still have, even though the possibility of never having him ever again is there right?
Long-winded, I know.
Simpler: will he like you if you kiss him? Think about this, if you had to ask this question, it most likely means you aren't mature enough to first, decide this on your own, and second, whether this is the 'right' thing to do on your part. Thus, most likely, I would suggest you wait it out, when your emotions and your personal interests develop more. At your age, it's possible your feelings are running wild, influenced by the idea that if you "put-out", things will go your way.
Umm, no. If you have to offer 'your body' in essence, to get 'love', then it isn't really love you're getting back.
However, if you insist on kissing him and seeing if it will work, I say, go for it. It's all really trial and error. If you feel you will regret it if you don't try, fine, go for it. Otherwise, take our words in and wait it out.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (25 October 2007):
 hi
bad idea babe, dont like to hurt your feeling but, if you do this, will only give you heart break, he will never let you live it down.
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reader, rcn +, writes (25 October 2007):
bad idea.
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reader, blueeyedbabe +, writes (25 October 2007):
If he doesnt like you then maybe its best if you stay friends. I dont think that you should go up to him and kiss him as it could make things awkward between you both at School. And if he doesnt want to kiss you then he could just push you away and make a fool out of you. He may also react to it and stop talking to you which im sure you dont want. But it is your decision...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): no you shouldn't just go up to him and kiss him because that will probally cause problems boys can be really mean sometimes and its not a certain yes that he'll like you if you do that
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reader, desirewhitefire  +, writes (25 October 2007):
 No, don't kiss him. You're not ready to kiss anyone if you're sending boys notes saying, "Do you like me? Circle 'Yes" or 'No'." Wait until you are older, like 16 before you go kissing boys.
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