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writes:Dear Agony Aunt, I have fallen for a boy in my class. Everyone says he likes me too, but I'm afraid to ask him out because if we do go out, I am afraid people will tease me and tell everyone in school. I have asked a few agony aunts but they have all given me rubbish answers. Please help!Yours Faithfully,Noellexxxxx(not my real name, don't worry) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): don't be afraid just ask him out if people make fun of you just ignore them if he says yes you'll be happy and that's what counts
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): THANK YOU ALL FOR THE ADVICE!
i'll put it to the test, after all, it only matters what i think, not other kids! ill put up with the teasing,it will blow over after a few weeks.(thats if he says yes!)
Thank you so much!
love,
noelle
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): Dear "Noelle",
What do you care what anyone thinks. You really shouldn't care about what other people think. If you feel that you are gonna get embarrassed, then don't ask him out. But always remember that it doesn't matter what other people think it only matters what you think. And if that's not good enough, you're outa luck
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 August 2008):
Well you are very young so the kids probably will tease you because they are kids and kids tease anyone at any opportunity.
You just have to decide whether you can take a bit of teasing and if he's going to be worth it.
If not then just carry on as you are until your classmates grow up enough not to act like children and date him then.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): If you like him then ask him out.
I suppose that's the answer you got from all the other agony aunts... As for the teasing just tell your closest friend and tell them to keep it shut.
These are some of the ways to tell if he likes you:
* If he wants to talk to you all the time,
* If you turn around and you catch him looking at you,
* If he starts acting nicer when you're around him,
* If he says "yes" to all the things you ask him to do,
* If he treats you differently than others,
* If he tries to sit next to you at work, in class, at lunch, or play on a team with you during Gym/Recess
* If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh,
* If he acts immaturely around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
* If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
* If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you (e.g. when you touch him he might touch you back),
* If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
* If he tries to make you laugh,
* If he tries to copy you,
* If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
* If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
* If he constantly calls you and uses an excuse -such as What was the homework?
* If he goes out of his way to talk to you (e.g. if he goes to the other side of your school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there),
* If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you (note: this may be considered a form of stalking)
* If you see him staring at something by turning his head 90 degrees and when you look at him he smiles and turns away, when this happens, check his pupils, he might have actually been staring at you
* If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
* If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back, (but don't flirt with them just to find out if he likes you)
* If he talks to you and wants to know how you're doing,
* If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends,
* If he asks about you to your friends when you're not around,
* If he asks you to dance with him at the dance. Note: He may be trying to be nice because he thinks you like him. But if you are at a middle school dance, he's probably too vain and self centered of a fraidy cat, so he probably
* If he walks past you and tries to look cool so you can glance at him
* If a guy tries to show you things he got that are somewhat expensive (e.g. a cellphone) or he tries to impress you,
* If you notice when he gets out of class and starts to walk a little slower than usual, then he's trying to give you the opportunity to talk to him!
* If he always talks to you there's a great chance that he likes you.
* If he feels so awful letting you down that he lies.
* If he would do anything to spend more time talking to you (e.g. if he talks to/texts you until 2:30 in the morning).
* If you realize that he ignores you when your looking but when you look out of the corner of your eye, he turns back around to look back at you,
* If he's talking to his friends and nodding like he's paying attention but you realize he's not, he's actually been staring at you the whole time!
* If he walks down the hallway (at school) and he "accidentally" bumps into you/touches you/moves your chair/pulls your hair etc.
* If he ignores you almost completely. For example, when you call his name he does nothing, but when your friend does, he pays attention. This is because he might be embarrassed or not sure how to approach you. Be careful, though, he might ignore because he just flat-out doesn't like you!
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