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*ockthetrumpet
writes:I met this boy a few months ago and I've had a huge crush on him for a while. His girlfriend broke up with him around then too so he's not looking for a serious relationship. Anyway, we've hooked up twice so far (we kissed a lot and slept together but nothing happened past kissing) and he told me that he's sorry for leading me on, but he was just lonely and bored. Clearly he feels nothing for me, but the way he acts around me makes me wish he did. And that's why I don't want to forget about him. We're friends and I see him everyday so he's not just some guy. What should I do? I really don't want to let this one go...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 December 2012):
 YOU can't hold on to something you don't have.
He told you he led you on, he made it clear that he was just lonely and bored and you were a space and time filler nothing more.
You have a crush and they are overwhelming and then you get the tease of being near him so "hope springs enternal" but the truth is you can't make him feel the way about you that you want him to feel so for your own sake it's better to walk away from anything with this guy.
IF you are friends and you see him everyday... then I would figure out a way to not see him everyday so you can get over this.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 December 2012):
 Sorry honey, he isn't looking for a GF and you are fooling yourself if you think you can "change" his mind by offering hook ups.
And if you have serious feelings for him, and he knew this.. he isn't a FRIEND.
He isn't into you as a GF material. Either stay friends or stay away from him 100%.
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reader, N91  +, writes (10 December 2012):
 You dont really have a choice.
If he isnt interested in you in that way, do you really want to continue seeing this guy daily and having your feelings grow knowing that nothing is going to happen?
Sounds like you are just setting yourself up for great upset.
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