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writes: hi, 1)first question: im 14 and never kissed anyone before :( but at night i always kiss my hand and pretend its the person i fancy. is this normal or is there something wrong wiv me? does everyone do this?2)second question: will kissing my hand help me become a better kisser?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2019): Nah I do it too kinda I'm 13
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): hi im michael. im 15 and ive kissed many s. iv had 8 friends and i dumped them all for the next one. ive made out before with my friends. i practice kissing by myself. there is nothing wrong with that. many people do so. you do get better but the only one you can really practice is the french kiss. here are some more kisses:
* In the Butterfly Kiss, you bring your face very close to that of your partner and then, flutter your eyelashes rapidly.
* Cheek Kiss, as we all know, is one of the friendly kisses. It is usually adopted on the first date. You need to gently brush you lips across your partner’s cheek.
* Earlobe Kiss involves sipping and sucking the earlobe of the partner. Since you are so close to the ear, do not make too loud noises.
* In the Eskimo Kiss, you gently rub your nose with that of your partner.
* Eye Kiss, as the name suggests, implies giving a tender kiss on the closed eyes of the partner.
* You can do the Finger Kiss, while relaxing with your partner. Take his/her fingers and gently suck on them.
* Considered an kiss, Foot Kiss involves gently sucking the toes and then, kissing the foot very lightly.
* Forehead Kiss is meant to be the friendliest kiss. You simply brush your lips across your partner’s forehead.
* Freeze Kiss, also known as Melt Kiss, is the one in which you put an ice cube into your mouth and kiss your partner, while passing the cube to his/her mouth with your tongue.
* French Kiss is the most sensual kiss amongst all. At times called the Soul Kiss, it involves the tongue along with the lips.
* While doing the Fruity Kiss, you put a piece of a juicy fruit between your lips. While kissing you nibble a part of the fruit, while he nibbles the other.
* In Hand Kiss, you raise your partner’s hand to your lips and brush them lightly across the tip of the hand.
* Hot and Cold Kiss involves first licking your partners lips to make them warm and then, blowing on them to make them cold. Keep alternating.
* Lick Kiss is gently running your tongue over your partner’s lips, just before kissing.
* Lip Sucking Kiss means that you suck on the lower lip of the partner while kissing.
* For Neck Nibble Kiss, start with nibbling you way up and down your partner’s neck. Finally, place a gentle kiss on his/her lips.
* Nip Kiss will require you to slightly nibble on your partner’s lips, while kissing. Make sure you do not end up biting him/her.
* While doing the Shoulder Kiss, come from behind your partner, give a slight hug and then, kiss the top of his/her shoulder.
* You can do the Sip Kiss while drinking something sweet. Take a sip of the drink, leaving a little of it on your lips, and gently kiss your partner.
* In Trickle Kiss, you take a sip of your favorite drink and then, trickle it into your partner’s mouth while kissing.
* Wake Up Kiss is more about time than technique. Just before your partner is about to wake up, kiss him/her - starting with the cheeks and ending at the lips. Then, softly say - Good Morning!
i just copied these off of a website. heres the link: http://lifestyle.iloveindia.com/lounge/how-to-be-a-good-kisser-554.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): I have heard that it is very good way to practice kissing. My younger sister, about your age, does the same thing and sometimes with her mirror. It's very strange to walk in and see her kissing her mirror though I must admit.
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (3 September 2006):
 When I first started to learn to kiss, I used to kiss my hand. I was bad though and eventually received a slap.
I decided it was time to move on to the real thing.
P.S I have received a few slaps since too, lol
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reader, miszy +, writes (1 September 2006):
 hi your completely normal i went through the same fing i always worried tht i cudnt kiss or actually do it rite and i was scared wot theyd fink but have you got a reli close m8 i mean a reli close m8 tht you can trust why dont you ask her/him to tell u wether you can c wot it feels like b4 it comes too the real fing... thats wot i did and it put my confidence levels rite up and wen it came too the moment i wasnt afraid so its up 2 you wether to do wot i suggest but make sure its sum1 u can trust xxx rose take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): of course it's normal, dont worry about it. I used to do the same thing and (I've been told) I'm a fantastic kisser so I think maybe it does make you better.
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reader, bonym +, writes (28 August 2006):
 True, I take pleasure in being anything but normal!!!!! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): Who wants to be normal?
I used to "french" kiss my pillow. Until I realized that I wasn't frenching but just smooshing my nose into it. I found french kissing was with open mouth and tongue.
I gave that up in a hurry and found a boy to kiss when I was in grade 7. Still talk to the guy.
It's harmless.
But if you start humping the pillow, just make sure you use protection to avoid an unwanted pregnancy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): Your posting is refreshingly innocent, dear and it truely made me smile. I think most of us have done that "kissing the hand" bit at one time or other in our formative, teen years. I agree with everyone else, it's very normal. Not sure if it will make you a better kisser. Like DrPete says, kissing will just come naturally to you when you kiss the right person, someday. Take care, dear
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): I seem to remember kissing my hand when I was around your age so it must be completely and entirely normal behaviour.
Kissing your hand probably won't make you a good kisser - kissing comes naturally when you do it for real and it is different with each individual. Kissing can be very intimate and special, and I think around 6,489 times better than doing it on your hand.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (28 August 2006):
The best way to learn to kiss is to kiss, funnily enough.
When somebody does kiss you, try to follow their lead, like in a dance, do what they do. Move mouth slowly and gently, rather than rapid movements and dont tense. Stay as relaxed as possible, then go with the flow.
Kissing hand can help with technique, but cannot help you learn to kiss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): Hey don't worry we have all done it,i done it when i was your age.I don't think that kissing your hand will make you a better kisser because believe me it is so much different when it happens.
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reader, bonym +, writes (28 August 2006):
No there is absolutely nothing wrong with you at all. But as Yos correctly said the only way to be good at something is to actually do it. For example a pianist can only become as good as Beethoven if not better if he practices as often as possible. The more you practice the better you become. Becoming a "better" kisser also is a question of individual preferences. I am not sure what makes a "great" kisser but at the end of the day, a kiss is just a kiss. xXx
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reader, Yos  +, writes (28 August 2006):
 It's very normal! Lots of people have done it, though most won't admit to it. People practice kissing all sorts of things (I don't recommend a cactus btw).
As for whether it will make you a better kisser? No, not really :( The only way to get good at kissing is to kiss someone. You can expect to be very nervous the first few times you do kiss... which makes it very difficult! However you get used to it quickly and then it gets much easier.
I should add that movies and TV showing kissing are not much help either. People in the real world kiss rather differently than people in movies. They always seem to miss out the bit where someone has spinach stuck between their teeth, and then the other person sneezes!
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