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writes:hi i love my boyfriend more than anything in this world, been together for ten months but i have known him for years. we are really close and we have so much fun together. its just the other night when we was having sex i thought about my ex and it made me orgasm and i kept imagining it was him i was on top of me. i always have an orgasm anyway, but this time i thought of my ex and now i feel a bit guilty. does this mean im still attracted to my ex? i dont see how i orgasmed over him because i really cant stand my ex and i hate him, i use to love him but now i have met an amazing boy who i love, so can you explain why this happend?
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reader, duce00  +, writes (19 November 2009):
 You are fine unless you get the names confused in a moment of passion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): Ah sex is a funny thing and our sexual minds play all kinds of tricks on us. People don't really talk about this stuff too openly because it's 'taboo' and people are ashamed of being labelled as weird and different - but we all experiment with different fantasies - even of the people that we find unattractive or people who used to be in our lives - it's not weird. The things that turn us on may surprise us sometimes but sex is a complicated thing full of different emotions - don't feel guilty or 'wrong' - it doesn't necessarily mean that you are still attracted to your ex either. But even if it did, there's nothing wrong with that. You love your boyfriend, and he's the one you're actually sleeping with. That's what matters. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): Well if you still even think about your ex then there's something there. Sit down and think about it, it's not fair for you and your boyfriend because even though you love him you imagine your ex carrasing you and as your sex partner. It's not right I must say, and though you say you hate him maybe deep inside you still care and love him. Just be careful it dosent get to something wors. Good luck (:
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