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anonymous
writes: Why do i find kissing really tedious? I find kissing once or twice and pecking etc is fine, but i have started too dislike long snogging!! I'm really confused. Too begin with it was really great! But now after 9 months I only like kissing slightly.Even during sex, i start too get irritated because my girlfriend is constantly kissing me when I'm doing most of the work and getting slightly out of breath. I can't breathe etc. Thing is also, she is the sloppyest kisser ever! Really loves to water her mouth and I start too find it sick and extremely irritating. Why is she like this?
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reader, hannieseds +, writes (21 August 2006):
Hey there,
I agree with BonyM here. You really do need to talk to her as there will come a day when she will be kissing you and you will lose it and say something you will regret. This is obviously really bothering you so you need to approach her in a non-threatening fashion and have a wee talk about it.
Maybe next time she is kissing you, gently suggest to her "babe, lets try it this way" - and show her how you like to be kissed. Now, I know this is gonna be hard because I am in the same boat - I need to talk to my BF about his kissing style because it feels like i'm kissing a St Bernard dog or something! But I am finding it hard to approach him about it coz I know he'll be devestated that he isn't doing it 'right'.
So be really careful aye and keep telling her positive things you DO like about her kissing but suggest ways that you could both improve so you both enjoy it as much as the other. xxx
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reader, bonym +, writes (21 August 2006):
Well I think you need to gently tell your girlfriend how you are feeling otherwise you will just explode with disgust one day and she will really be hurt. I cant possibly say why she is like this, only she knows that, talk to her, but be gentle. xXx
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