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I never thought this could happen but I've fallen for my brother. How do I tell my friends?

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Question - (13 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I never thought this would happen but I fell for my brother. We always got along,arguing every now and then like any brother and sister. One day I was fixing to go out with my boyfriend. As I was in the restroom finishing up my make-up(I had the door open,I was already dressed) my brother walks in. I was thinking he was just gonna get something and that's it. He sort of hugged me from behind and started rubbing my thighs and a** ,it felt so good. He stopped I guess thinking I didn't want to go further. After he went to his room I cancelled the date with my boyfriend then went to my brothers room and had sex with him,I was a virgin until then. I have since ended it with my now ex bf. Me and my brother are so in love,he's HOT!(good looks run in the family). I never imagined id fall for my brother. I plan on telling my friends but I was wondering what's the best way to do it?

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntTo the poster and BazookaBob, I think you are VERY SICK PEOPLE. Bob you are a DISGRACE, how utterly appalling that you should give the advice of a woman in her twenties that she should sleep with her BROTHER. You give all the Aunts on here a bad name and should be struck off this page.

Sleeping with your sister,brother,father,mother etc is ILLEGAL. As for you young lady YOU AND YOUR BROTHER are making my stomach turn at the very thought. If good looks run in your family (as you allege) then I suggest both of you to find a boyfriend/girlfriend of your own. PREFERABLY NOT MEMBERS OF YOUR FAMILY. EEEEWWWW!!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008):

You are over 22, I think you are mature enough to understand that incest will result in distortion of normal family relationship. I strongly recommend you to end the sexual relationship with your brother. The relationship must be concealed, otherwise it will only cast a shadow on your family and inflict a harm on you which can never be healed by time.

It is understandable if you find it difficult to suppress your feeling. I cannot blame you for having a great affection for your brother, but having lust for him is not healthy. Is it possible for you to find someone who has a great resemblance to him? In fact, many adolescents tend to fall for people who have a resemblance to their parents and siblings.

If you still find it hard to resist the urge of having sex with him, you should have a meeting with a counsellor instead of sharing it with your friends. If your relatives or neighbours find out about the incest, your family will be humiliated.

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A male reader, madflash United States +, writes (13 April 2008):

madflash agony auntLOL First you start by telling everyone you had sex with a horse, plan to do it again, and will never stop loving it.

After that, anything you tell them will be a relief.

Good luck with that one.

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