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writes:Ok so I like this guy, and I think he likes me too. We have been hanging out all summer, and recently we kissed. Then last monday I told him I liked him and his answer wasnt really informative. So I asked him if I was wasting my time and he said no. Anyway I left it there.So at the weekend there was a party and I went back to his to stay over (dont worry I didnt sleep with him! I would never do that unless in a relationship) but we slept in the same bed all curled up and kissing and talking and stuff, and he was really cuddly in the morning and playful and stuff. At the party everyone was refering to him as my boyfriend, I corrected them and stuff. Even my mum thinks we are going out because of the time we spend together. I'm back at college doing a levels, and he's going to uni this week. It's in the same city as me and he can drive so no problemo. But he's moving into a new house this week so i dont wanna be pushy. But I want a relationship and not to be a f**k buddy. But he always says he likes relationships. Not sure how to approach the topic without seeming pushy, because hes bound to meet new people at uni and then I might lose him :(
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reader, Confuzzled012  +, writes (22 September 2009):
 It's not as difficult as you're making it. Just ask him if he's interested in a relationship with you because that's what you're interested in and have no desire for physicalities outside of that.
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reader, devildare  +, writes (22 September 2009):
 make sure hes the guy....so every time you look around make sure you dont feel like going near any1 else 1st....ask him if he really likes you and dont be afraid to ask him if he wants to be in a relationship.....and for the people bugging you , i would agree with everthing they say sarcasticly.....its probably coz there jelous that they havnt been in bed with someone
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reader, Nabs92 +, writes (22 September 2009):
Hi :)
I actually don't think he's made up his mind yet! Why don't you go out on a few dates and see what happens.
Ask him out somewhere, and if you have a good time he'll ask you out again.
If you don't offer him casual sex then he's not going to expect it, so don't worry!
Don't rush things, if he's worth it then he'll treat you well and you might end up in a relationship together.
Good luck! x
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reader, called Steve +, writes (22 September 2009):
 Sounds like he prefers you as a friend and not in a sexual way - you have to respect him for that, surely!
Just back off a bit and let him do the running a little - you may be crowding him...
If it's not meant to be then it's not meant to be... sorry!
Steve S
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