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writes:My husband only thinks about himself. He truely believes that he is a better and a more important person than I am, because he makes more money than I do. We always have to do what he wants. All of his brothers tells me that he has always been this way, and fear that he will NEVER change. They scold him for treating me this way, but he just laughs it off. My doctor has finally told me that my husband is causing me so much stress that it will kill me. He has started to go to church with me and claims he's a christian, but I have noticed that he is back into looking at porn on the internet.. He is in law enforcement too... I know I need to leave him, but I would like some advice in how to shock him into reality first, in something to say or do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): And why did you marry this a-hole?? He's alway been like this, says his family. Didn't you pick up on these traits when you were dating. It never ceases to amaze me why women are attracted to jerks who mental/physically abuse and use them. Women -- please take note. This how those "bad boy" relationships end up. Life lessons here, girls. Shocking him? Divorce the jerk. Don't say anything. Have your lawyer serve the papers. That will say a lot. And don't repeat your mistake by going home or dating the cockey, overly confident jerk at the bar again.
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reader, 48years  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 I'm guessing that you're a christian. My advice is not easy to follow, but think about trying it:
Extend sacrificial love to your husband.
Here's why: This may be the means of his spiritual healing. God won't forsake you, no matter what you may endure. He will be there for you.
You can't fix or restore your marriage...but God can.
Also, God knows he's an a-hole...but he gave him to you for a reason...please don't give up on him yet!
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