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Why can't I get as hard as I used to?

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Question - (2 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2009)
A male Cyprus age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey..am 16 and i had "sex" 2 months ago..ive put it on quotes coz it was embarassing..we were at the beach with no clothes..anyway..i got hard but when i got inside her i started to loose the hardness ..it was soo cold that night and i had no clothes on..anyway from that day i cant get HArd as i used to..i get hard..but not hard enough..even when i watch porn..whats wrong? help me guys..i am thinking about this 24/7 ..whats wrong with me

Why cant i get as hard as i used to?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (2 January 2009):

DoubleM agony auntThis type of thing comes and goes throughout your lifetime, but probably not very often. Get used to it and stop worrying. The more you think and worry about it, the more it will likely occur. It is most likely mental.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

Like the post above, just relax. If you wake up with morning wood that means that what your experiencing is in your head pretty much. All of us at some point in time have embarrassing sexual episodes, its kinda natural. As for the porn....lay off of it for a while. Porn is just like anything else, you build up a tolerance for it and what used to arouse you no longer does. If you find that you dont wake up with "morning wood" every 2-3 days then you might wanna visit a doctor.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

You're putting too much pressure on yourself. Are you waking up with a woody? If never, you might have a physical problem and check with your doctor. Likely you feel bad for losing your erection while cold at the beach. Hey, it was cold: Don't be hard on yourself (no pun intended). Really. If it continues, see you doctor.

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