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writes:I am 17 years old and my girlfiend has just turned 18 years old we both love each other very very very much and both very happy but she isn't ready to have sex yet and I understand that I have been waiting for gd 2 years and she said she is scared and i dont want her to feel scared about it because it makes me think that she doesnt trust me i am not going to push her into it but I need to know if she feels safe around me in situations like that Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): she may be saying she is scared cause she aint ready man. you gotta ask yourself how important is sex to you and how important is this girl to you? some women need more time to work through the idea, and you know what, respect that. i know when i was your age my hormones were kicking but i waited for my girlfriend and dam im glad i did, i waited six years! thats painful, but in the end we ended up having great sex, when she decided to go for it, and now we have two kids, been married fifteen years and i wouldnt give her up for anything. we work out everyday so its not like we both dont have good bodies or looks to get out and find something new, but we have a commitment and desire that has built up through time. if you care about her, you won't push it, but you can ask her whats up with the fear issue. remind her that its cool to want to wait. then let her know if you can/ cant wait man. cause she needs to know if your right for her if you can hold out.
keep it real to yourself man.
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