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writes:Last Saturday my girlfriend went out all night and she didn't come home she told me she went 1 of her female's houses for a drink and decided to stay over night. when i phoned her to question y she was staying i heard a lad say " put the phone down " the day after she acted weird towards me like it was my fault for shouting at her. maybe it was maybe it wasn't. she dumped me 4 day's after saturday night and now i'm hearing she did go back to some lad's house she work's with. do u think she cheated on me? or do u think she may of gone back 2 this lad's house and nothing happend but thought if she told me. i would get even madder. i asked her sunday morning where her friend's lived and she said up near some shops (very close) but u have 2 go up the hill outside my house 2 get there and she came up the street from my right. and when i questioned that she told me she went to cath's and the other way is her other friend'smy brother's best friend know's someone that work's with my girl (my girl and this person are very close friends) and she asked her " is he begging for u 2 get back with him " my girl said " yeah! " and she said " r u " my girl said " would u? " and my girl and this lad i think r in a r-ship 3 Day's after us breaking up. i think that 2 soon and that she did cheat on that night with this lad and thought i need 2 dump him if i'm going to c this lad. my girl told me she wasn't looking for a r-ship what so ever so what do u think is going on?i don't like hearing rumors. even thought the girl at work is saying she DID go back to this lad's house saturday night. what do u think i sould do?i'm well over her don't get me wrong i am but that saturday night is still holding me back from moving on help please.any help would be greatdo u think she cheated on me or do u think she said " let me dump him and i'm all your's " she didn't dump me till 5 day's later. what do u think?
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reader, eddie  +, writes (17 December 2006):
 If you're over her, you're over her. She owes you nothing more. If people are telling you she was with this guy, she might have been. Do these other people have any reason to lie to you? Would they benefit from making this up? If not, why would they lie?
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reader, tinklinglaughter +, writes (17 December 2006):
 Ok, so maybe she cheated on you or maybe she waited til she broke up with you. You probably won't know unless you ask her and if she's willing to tell you. From your previous posts it seems like she broke up with you because of your mistrust or maybe that was just an excuse for her or the original reason why she sought someone else. However, she did go to his house, she did lie to you about it, so a break-up was definitely in the works. She is no longer with you, and if she is already in a relationship with that other person it, probably, is too soon, but it just means that she didn't value your relationship too much, right? Whether she cheated on you physically or not, she was certainly deceiving you. You are doing yourself no good by thinking about it over and over again. Don't try to get any information about her and what she's doing, and you will get along much better.
Take care...
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