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I need to end a crush!

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Question - (5 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 July 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *rapped At Home writes:

I need to end a crush.

So far this site has helped me so much with my problems, as in, they have identified my problems as limerenece which seems likely.

But, its for another guy, which makes me bisexual.

I'm learning to deal with the fact, I am in love with another boy, although he is the only boy I fancy.

However, I just want tips on how to get out of a crush, I think im becoming a bit obsessed but need to know how to end this crush. We spoke on facebookon 3rd July, just general stuff, and my heart was racing and I got all nervous, as I dont usualy get to speak to him.

I'm pretty sure he likes girls, he doesnt have a girlfriend, but I think he has a crush on a girl.

SO I just really need help in getting over him, how do you end a crush, or at least make the pain a little less.

I've been trying to avoid him, but reminders of him pop up everywhere. And I find myself just waiting on facebook for him to log on so maybe we can chat again.

I think its love, but I wouldnt mind just being friends with him, any tips as well on how to become friends with him, or how to strike up a conversation.

In our conversation on facebook, he seemed quite interested, he responded to my questions, and asked me the same questions back. But then he had to leave after 11 minutes. And hasn't really been back since.

He logs on for a few seconds, like 3, then logs back out again.

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A female reader, ugh101 United States +, writes (6 July 2009):

ugh101 agony auntNobody should know that you blocked him. I have blocked people on there and nobody has been able to tell.

good LuckXX

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A male reader, Trapped At Home United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2009):

Trapped At Home is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you, ill try and yes, it depresses me, and i cant block him, as people would find it strange.

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A female reader, ugh101 United States +, writes (5 July 2009):

ugh101 agony auntIf you want to get rid of it youd have to try to stay away from him. Meaning maybe blocking him on facebook. Staying away from those places that he usally is.

Now do you feel depressed cause i said to stay away from him. If you do its gonna be rlly hard not to lke him. Cause i feel the sme way bout mi crush. The actual thought depresses me. And i cant do it.

Try to focus on something else. Like a sport or new hobbie.

Good LuckXX

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