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30-35,
*eela
writes:i need tips on how to get a special girl to orgasm throuhg oral??and i also need some help with foreplay?how to do it...the right time...everything about foreplay and helpful tips about sex...please help..thanks in advance..mwah
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Oh it's still not working lol. Highlight the whole thing and put it into your internet search bar. Then it should come up :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Sorry honey that link isnt working, try this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Vagina-anatomy-labelled2.jpg
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Take things really slowly, smile at her suggestively and start maybe touching her up. Kiss her, cuddle her, make her feel relaxed, comfortable and happy. Lie down on the bed, with her on her back if its easiest. Finger her to start with - especially if you've never gone 'down there' before! Rub her clitoris (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Vagina-anatomy-labelled2.jpg this link may be helpful, so you can find your way around!) but don't just concentrate on one place. Use your whole hand to explore her genitals, and kiss her at the same time.
When you guys are both comfortable, slowly go down on her. Kiss her breasts, kiss her stomach, kiss around her hips and inner thighs. Lick too, make a nice selection of everything your mouth has to offer! Once you've done all this, you're ready to go in for the kill! Lick her outer lips (labia majora), and slowly, gently pull them apart using your hands. Lick her inner lips (labia menora). Make smooth circle motions around her clitoris and whole vagina. Then keep changing the directions of your tongue. Go quicker, then slower, press harder with your tongue, and then press softly. Give her a nice variation!
Remember to watch how she is reacting - if she moans harder when you do certain things, she's enjoying them, so do those things a little more often than you do others. Keep doing this for around 10 - 15 minutes (I would advise closer to 15) and she's sure to orgasm! But you should be enjoying it too, so let her know you are! Moan softly, and this will seriously turn her on if she knows you're not just in it all for her. She wants you to enjoy it too! Try not to just be counting down the minutes until 15 minutes has gone by. Enjoy it, let yourself get carried away!
Another good technique is if you finger her at the same time, with 2 fingers if you like. This gives her g-spot stimulation as well as her clitoris, which will almost definitely get her to orgasm quicker! When she orgasms, you might feel her clit 'pulsing' and getting wetter, and she'll probably taste a little different. But don't worry or pull away, this will make her very uncomfortable if you do.
Good luck :] don't hesitate to message me if you've got any problems.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 Relaxed atmosphere, patience. Dont go at it like a bull in a china shop! Gentle, unless she likes it rough! Communicate, communicate, communicate. Men aren't mind readers. You need some guidence from her, all women are different. Listen to her responses. Most women know to let you know in this way if what you're doing is hitting the right spot! Remember it can take half hour or so for women to reach orgasm, so you need to be comfortable too! lol
C xxxxx
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