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writes:This summer I went to a camp and met this girl. When I first saw her, I thought she was pretty, but that was just about it. But as time passed by, I got to know her personality and I started to like her regardless of her apperance. I admit there were times when I thought "I like this girl," but I realized later that they were more like friendship feeling than romance. But for this girl I met at camp, I just can't stop thinking about her. Even though we became good friends during the camp, I'm not sure if she just likes me as friend or she too is willing to go out with me. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunt Annie +, writes (8 August 2010):
WOW! A summer love, how cute :)
I know that guys sometimes DON'T have the guts to ask the love of their life out because how they think it will go.
I think the best way to go is to make sure she likes you back. There's NOTHING worse than being rejected, trust me. Try and spend as much time as you can with her and make her feel like she's the only girl alive. Do as much as you can for her, and if you REALLY like her, you won't want anything to happen to her, you would want to protect her. Make sure she knows this, but make it subtle, girls pick up on things VERY quickly :)
Good luck and I hope I helped! :)
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reader, peace love nsn +, writes (8 August 2010):
awww that is so sweet! well take my advice i am a girl nd I know what you should do! well when you with her talk to her about all the thing you like in a girl but say the things that u like about this girl. then just straight up look her in the eyes and tell her this," ( name ) I know I just met u at camp and we have become really great friends but I really want to be more than that. I just love everything about you! u make me feel like the luckiest guy just by being your friend! " and I she says something like oh I want to be with you to then just really look at her and tell her that she is beautiful and say it like you mean it. when my bf ses things like that to me it just makes me love him even more. nd if she ses she dusnt have those kind of feelings for you tell her ok I understand nd then be all like well I dintvwana ruin our friendship so can we still be friends? hopefully my advice helps!!
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reader, amandanash  +, writes (8 August 2010):
to be honest, camp is a tough place to meet people and to continue dating them. camp is a bubble where everything in there is a perfect ideal world. i met my ex at camp, and there, he seemed like this amazing wonderful and perfect person. i fell in love with his personality, charisma and looks to boot. but as soon as we were tossed out into the real world everything changed. 8 months later we were no longer together. so be guarded about this. he did a 180 turn around and change as soon as camp was over. he was suddenly not that person i had fallen for and had claimed to be. show interest in her, and be very forward about your feelings. but be careful about pursing anything because sometimes the real world shows people's real colors.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (8 August 2010):
 You need to be sincere with people while you have the opportunity because it might not always be there. You'd regret it if she found someone else, who knows, she might reciprocate your feelings but think "he's not interested, he would have asked."
Ask if you could ever be more than friends. Or, invite her to dinner or a movie. What do you have to lose?
If she's a true friend, she'll always be your friend.
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