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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I would really appreciate some help please. I've fallen for somebody who already has a boyfriend and a young son. I work with this girl and we get on great. I have spent a bit of time outside of work with her and her son and I love spending time with them. The problem is that the more time we spend together, the more i'm falling for her. I know things are bad between her and her boyfriend, they broke up and got back together again a few months ago, but she wants to give it everything for her son. I totally respect that, and I don't want to do anything to jeopardise it, but I'm finding it really hard to know how to handle our relationship. I'm pretty sure she feels something for me too, we text each other every day, and it does get quite flirty, but she just says her feelings don't matter because we can't be together, because she has to put her son first. I do understand this totally, but at the moment we are just going in circles. We spend time together, text each other all day long, flirt, and talk and everything's great. Then we stop because we feel guilty, and we know that its not helping her relationship, and we don't see each other for a while. But a few days later, it all starts again. I would really appreciate some advice on how we can be mature and sensible about this so that nobody gets hurt, but that we can hopefully carry on being friends, if that is even possible?Thank you.
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