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36-40,
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writes:Just wondering how a girl should move when on top during sex, I feel like i'm not very good, even though my boyfriend tells me I am. Is there any tricks to it? different ways of thrusting or positioning to make it easier for me, I have trouble keeping a rhythm up and if I keep my knees bent for a long time when I do stop they feel locked up and tight. Is there another way that is more comfortable and easier to keep a rhythm with as well as get me the pleasure I want? advice from both male and females would be great! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): Yeah, I have the same problem.
It kills my knees.
And then my hubby starts thrusting from below, because "he is so close and stopping now is going to ruin it".
I do feel like a failure.
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male
reader, iateadonut  +, writes (19 July 2008):
it's ok to change your position when you need to.
sit on him like you're sitting on your knees, and try moving back and forth instead of up and down. personally, i like the feeling of her thighs rubbing on my hips, and my penis still slides back and forth in her vagina, which feels good of course, and lets me relax when i don't want to achieve orgasm just yet.
if you're concerned because he's not cumming quickly, don't worry about that. it's far far easier to ejaculate when a man's hips are thrusting. i think alternating between the position i just talked about and having her on top bent over while i do her from behind (like doggy-style, but i'm under her) is pretty fun. i have to stop once i feel like i'm going to cum, but it's a lot more forceful so she likes it a lot more.
after a few cycles of this, you can take a short break, and kiss and what, and then he should do something that takes a lot of physical exertion (missionary, if you hold himself up with his shoulders and feet - it's very challenging physically, and can make the sex last a lot longer) for a while, until you're both ready to climax.
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reader, Belladonna  +, writes (19 July 2008):
Well, if you're having issues keeping rhythm, try listening to music and follow the beat. And trust your partner, if he says you're good, then you are.
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