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writes:Hi everyone,I am 38 years old female and I want to try online dating .I was Married before.I want to meet people to find the right match ( but I don’t want sex before marriage, I don’t mind kissing , hugging, holding hands .Could someone help me how I could mention on my profile?I am not English native speaker so I don’t know how I could explain in short words.Mostly guys think I can’t hug kiss holds hands if I am not willing to have sex. Which is not true . I am confused how I explain . I would be appreciate if someone guide me . Thanks in advanceNote , please don’t advice me to join Christine sites I am not Christian and I don’t mind to get from any religion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2019): Online dating is horrid these days so my advice headline of profile put settle down and under no circumstances don't sleep with any man until your ready as the men in these sites are incredibly pushy for sex and if you hold off it will protect you from hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2019): Thanks for all helpful replies
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2019): You could put
Recently single beautuful 38 year old looking for the right catch to match my lifestyle .
I'm lil old fashioned, I would like to get to know you, I like walks in the park, holding hands, lil kisses ..tender moments. The rest will progress in time .. I'm not to be rushed. I'm worth the time and the wait
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2019): You have every right to set your own boundaries regardless of how others live in these day . I personally feel exactly the same as you : I’m not a Christian however I m not interested in sleeping with someone unless we are in a serious committed relationship . I realise that most men nowadays expect women to sleep with them after only a few dates and many women feel that if they don’t then the man will move on to the next woman . This is true if they exact type of man you don’t want
So my advice would be DONT write my such thing in your profile but as you get to know a man let them know your feelings . If they complain or move on , then rest assured that you have simply weeded our a man who wasn’t for you
Many men will use the use that ‘ I need to know if we are sexually compatible ‘ it’s very strange how so many men nowadays needs to know if they are sexually compatible with so many women and then move on anyway . Don’t fall for this . Sexual compatibility is about
More than how two bodies fit together and and if you and a man were to be one close you could both certainly start discussing sexual preferences desires fantasies and lead into a sexual relationship over time . This is a MUCH better indicator of sexual compatibility than some guy who just wants to jump the bones of every female he meets to ‘ find out if he’s sexually compatible ‘
Stand strong In your beliefs , the right guy will be the one who respects yoh and is willing to build what it takes to make a fulfilling relationship with you . The whole online dating world doesn’t need to know this about you
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2019): I think if you put on your profile 'not interested in one night stands' or 'not interested in casual relationships' people will get the idea and then when you're chatting with someone you can say that you don't want to have sex before marraige. I don't think you need to put that on your profile.
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